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Make a Toast
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Step 1:
Be prepared
What you say will depend entirely on the situation. For example, a toast at an informal meal among a group of friends can be as short as, "Cheers!" or a quick thanks to the host and/or hostess for gathering everyone. If you're asked to speak at a formal occasion (such as a wedding, retirement party or the like), there's a little more to it.
Consider why you were asked and start from there. Think about what the person being honored means to you, as well as how many people will be present and how well you know them. Then set the inside jokes aside and come up with something everyone can enjoy. An amusing or heartfelt anecdote is ideal material, especially if it provides enjoyable insights into the person's character (just don't get too personal). Keep anything that's potentially offensive or embarrassing out. Basically, you want to say something the listeners can connect with, and you want to say it well.
But sometimes the situation calls for quicker thinking. For example, if someone toasts you, it's appropriate to return the favor. This is when knowing some quotes or favorite toasts will come in handy. Several books containing famous or interesting toasts are available--consider purchasing one and then memorizing a few quick toasts before heading out for social events. You can also find ideas in literature. Write down interesting sayings or quotes you find as you're reading--many famous toasts originated that way.
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